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Frequently asked questions
Before contacting me through the contact form, I kindly ask you to have a look at the following questions regarding my terms and services.
Finding yourself a bit overwhelmed? Read the policy and etiquette, choose a package, include additional (free) services and contact me through the application form.
Don't see your specific inquiry here? You can contact me through the contact form or email me directly at info@inaraella.com
I want to meet you, how do I book a date?
New clients are required to fill in the application form and will be contacted if their application is successful. To increase the probability of your application being accepted, please provide as detailed information as possible. If you have any inquiries or concerns, you can contact me through the contact form.
Factors I value during the screening proces: honesty and commitment in our communication and respect for each other's intricate lives.
Finding yourself a bit overwhelmed? Read the policy and etiquette, choose a package, include additional (free) services and contact me through the application form.
Communication around our date
Once our date is confirmed, I will ask you to state your preferred method of communication. I can share my telephone number and we can keep in contact via WhatsApp or text. Alternatively, if you prefer, we can maintain communication through email. Regular lovers are welcome to contact me via WhatsApp or text for scheduling or any inquiries.
Screening, verification and confidentiality
The reason that I require you to provide private information is to establish that you are who you say you are. This is a safety measure I take to protect my own security. If you are not comfortable sharing your information, I would advise you not to contact me unless you can provide another way in which to verify your identity that does not jeopardise my own. Your information is strictly confidential and never shared with a third party. Providing false screening information will result in blocking, black listing and a loss of any deposit. I will not hesitate to take legal action if my safety or that of my colleagues is being compromised.
When and where can we meet?
My anchored location is Brussels, Belgium, and I welcome local meetings around Belgium at a location of your preference. Additional travel costs may apply.
I also travel often to London, Paris, Zurich, Oslo, Madrid and Lisbon. For the best chance of meeting me, it is advisable to plan ahead.
Additionally, I am available worldwide upon request (Fly Me To You — FMTY).
Please be aware of additional expenses for transportation (train, plane, or taxi), visa, and the standard requirement of a 4-5 ★hotel.
Do you offer in-call or out-call?
There are two options available:
– Out-call: I come to you and your chosen location (your home, 4-5 ★ hotel, Wellness Spa or luxury Airbnb).
– In-call:: You meet me at a location I arrange (4-5 ★ hotel, Wellness Spa, Luxury Airbnb with facilities; sauna and hot tub).
A minimum of €200 contribution toward reservation costs will be added to my rate.
What is the minimum duration for a booking?
The minimum duration of a session depends on the location of our meeting.
– Belgium (considering possible additional travel expenses): 1 hour bookings are possible and start at €400
– London, Paris, Zurich, Oslo, Madrid, Lisbon: 4 hours minimum
During tour dates, I’m available for shorter meetings starting from one hour.
As my time in the city is limited, it is best to book in advance.
– Elsewhere in Europe: 6 hours minimum
– Elsewhere in the world: 12 hours minimum
What can I expect from a first meeting?
Once the booking has been confirmed, we will meet at the agreed upon location. I approach every date with genuine interest and will always be my authentic self. Therefore I like to focus on building a shared connection, emphasising on presence and natural chemistry instead of performance or predefined scripts. Every connection unfolds in a unique way, and I find that fascinating. There's just something so special, and maybe even addicting, about uncovering the layers of someone.
Notwithstanding, I do enjoy role playing and theater. I am actually a terrible liar, unless I can make preparations — I love getting in character. If you'd like to pre-negotiate explicit scenarios, this is possible, but only after a successful date where I at least have seen a glimpse of your true colours. I was always told never to play with strangers.
How does payment work?
All bookings require a 25% deposit and 50% for International Travel (FMTY) plus additional travel fees. Upon the completion of the screening process, I will provide you with the details for deposit submission.Payment can be made easily and discreetly via Throne, Crypto or digital gift card (Zalando/Bol).
The remaining balance should be offered within the first ten minutes of my arrival. I would appreciate it if you do not make me ask for it. Please ensure it is offered discreetly—if you like to pay in cash, please do so either in an unsealed envelope or subtly concealed within a gift for a more personal touch.
The method of payment will be discussed prior to our date. If you prefer avoiding cash you can choose to transfer me the full payment in advance.
Offered prices are non-negotiable
A gentle(wo)man does not complain about money. Anything resembling negotiation is considered disrespectful and will be declined.
Travel Expenses
Outside my home (Brussels) or tour base
> 30km €50
> 50km €75
> 100 km TBD
* Travel expenses may be subject to location.
International travel: bookings requiring extensive or oversea travel will be subject to additional travel expenses (this includes visa, accommodation and transport expenses).
Do you require a deposit?
All dates require a 25% deposit. International and FMTY bookings require a 50% deposit plus additional travel fees. The deposit ensures that I know you are committed and accountable to keeping your appointment. Upon completion of the screening process, I will provide you with the details for deposit submission. If you wish to pay a larger deposit or the full sum in advance just let me know.
What happens if I need to reschedule/ cancel our date?
Just like yours, my time is precious and incredibly valuable to me. Once we’ve confirmed a date, I’ve set aside that time specifically for you — and for you alone.
I completely understand that, despite having the best intentions, sometimes life gets in the way and wont leave us another choice but to reschedule. As long as you communicate this well in advance and can commit to a new date (depending on my own schedule), you won't lose your deposit and I will transfer your deposit to a future date.
For last minute reschedules or cancelations:
While unexpected circumstances can arise, please keep in mind the following cancellation policy: within 48 hours of the appointment: A 50% cancellation fee will apply. Within 24 hours: You’ll need to pay the full amount as a cancellation fee. More than 48 hours in advance: Your deposit can be applied toward a future booking within 30 days.
If we’ve arranged a FMTY (Fly Me To You), please notify me at least 3 days in advance— otherwise, a 100% cancellation fee will apply.
In the event of a second cancellation or if you fail to show up without notice, I’ll require full payment upfront for future bookings.
In the rare occasion where I need to cancel our booking, I aim to arrange an alternative date promptly. I’ll transfer your deposit to a future date and offer you an additional hour on your next booking. If that is not possible, the complete deposit will be returned through the original method of delivery.
It is essential to note that cancellation resulting from offensive or unsafe behaviour on your part will lead to forfeiture of the deposit.
What happens if I need to reschedule/ cancel our date?
With regards to cancellations, it's not a problem if you need to cancel but your deposit will not be refunded. If you cancel within 24 hours of our arranged meeting time then this will incur a charge of the full amount of the booking.
I will always respect your time so all I ask is that this goes both ways. If you have to cancel on me and feel awful about it then you can absolutely make it up to me. I take apologies in cash winks at you.
It's essential to note that cancellation resulting from offensive or unsafe behaviour on your part will lead to forfeiture of the deposit.
Do I have to choose a package?
The packages are for inspiration and provide an idea about a few preset hourly rates. You can choose the duration of your date, starting at €400 for 1 hour. The more hours you book, the lower the rate per hour.
What if during the date I want to extend a package?
If during the date you are not quite ready to say goodbye, and my schedule allows it, you can extend your package to another package. The price of the new package applies and the already paid balance will be subtracted.
What will we get up to behind closed doors on our date?
Ah, a question as delicate as moonlight on velvet — cheeky, indeed! But glad you asked, because it is important to align our expectations. A date is a dance of spontaneity, where curiosity and chemistry lead the way. I like to go with the flow and let things unfold naturally, guided by mutual trust and wonder. I value elements of anticipation, desire and climax, and playing with these leads to the most exhilarating experiences that feel organic and unscripted.
However, if your heart leans towards something more specific — something that glimmers like a secret constellation — if it harbours whispers of curiosity — those unspoken desires you’d like to weave into our shared time, allow me to be your compass. If you’re unsure whether a spark might light my flame or fade into the night, simply ask. After all, intimacy is a dance of trust and transparency. And trust me, the most delicate questions are worth asking. Vulnerability is the loveliest kind of candour, and I’ll cherish the fact that you want to ensure I'm comfortable with what happens between us, as much as your touch.
Can we play out a specific fantasy or script?
I approach every date with genuine interest and will always be my authentic self. Notwithstanding, I do enjoy role playing and theater. I am actually a terrible liar, unless I can prepare for it. I love getting in character. If you'd like to pre-negotiate explicit scenarios, just let me know in your message, and we can see what's possible.
Note that I do draw a line at
Do you meet with people of X gender / demographic / religion?
I welcome clients from all backgrounds—regardless of gender, race, religion, or sexual orientation. My priority is to ensure a respectful and safe environment, which means I kindly ask you to follow my screening process. I emphasise inclusivity and openness in communication. If there are specific needs or adjustments that would make your experience more comfortable, please share them in the application form or by email so I can accommodate accordingly.
Do you meet with people who have a disability?
I welcome individuals with physical or mental disabilities and am committed to creating an inclusive, respectful, and safe space for everyone. My priority is to ensure that your experience is comfortable and tailored to your needs, so do not hesitate to be as communicative as possible. I also kindly as you to respect the following boundaries:
Mental age of consent: If there are concerns about a client’s ability to provide informed consent or engage in meaningful communication, this will be a clear boundary. My focus is on ensuring mutual understanding and safety for all parties involved.
Behavioural issues: I draw the line at actions that could compromise my safety, the safety of others, or the integrity of our shared space. This includes behavior that disrupts the environment or violates respectful boundaries.
If you have specific needs or require accommodations to ensure your comfort, please share them in the application form or via email so we can address them appropriately. I value transparency and collaboration to create a positive experience for everyone.
Do you offer fetish/kink sessions?
Yes. Alongside companionship, I welcome enquiries about more exploratory, fetish-oriented or power-based experiences. Just as with other conversational topics between us, these themes are discussed privately, with care. If there is something specific you would like for us to do during our session, just ask. It is always better to ask me before the session, so that I can make preparations, if necessary, otherwise you might have to wait until the next session.
Please note that power-exchange dynamics are only available after the completion of a successful vanilla date, since they require an extensive level of trust and communication in regards to vulnerability and consent.
Do you arrange sessions with couples?
Yes — as part of my background in relationship therapy and human sexuality, I consider it a great honour to guide couples through their sexual endeavours. Shared curiosity is here essential, so whether you are looking to explore specific intimacy needs, design a dream scenario or broaden your sexual repertoire — it is fundamental that everyone feels comfortable, desired and included. From experience, my attention will naturally gravitate toward her, while respecting the connection you share as a couple, at all times.
There is no additional charge for couple bookings.
I'd love to bring a gift for you to our date. What would you like?
Aww, that’s incredibly kind of you — what a lovely and sweet surprise. You definitely know how to make a lady feel cherished. Well, I adore fresh flowers — but to keep some mystery and thrill, I wont tell you which ones, yet. I'll tell you a secret though, you can never go wrong with red, regardless of my appreciation for originality.
Especially if we have never met before, it can be difficult to decide on a gift that you think I'd like. I believe that if you find a gift that reflects something you like, it also provides a tangible way for me to get to know the real you. And I'd love nothing more. To dress in a way that will enchant you is a huge turn on for me, so think luxury lingerie in your favourite colour, ornaments or a piece of fabric you admire and think will look good on me. Alternatively, you can look for inspiration on my Wishlist.
And since the way to a person's heart is through their stomach — and I am, after all, a person, exotic fruit always hits the spot.
Becoming a VIP member
Delve deeper into Inaraella's story and let's write a chapter together..
Benefits of being a VIP member
Let's be a light in each other's lives.
Access to VIP packages
Discounts on your dates (if there is an event that I want to attend, I will let my VIP members know about it first, and hopefully one of them will want to go on a date with me)
Example: Who wants to go watch the Mandalorian and Grogu with me (22 May onwards) > A drink + Movie time + 1h30 of alone time for €600?
Meet my cyber alter, and your favourite pocket-size companion
Interact with me through text, Whatsapp or email
Read my journal, and let's talk about the content.
Listen to my Spotify playlists
Partake in interactive games (with little gifts for the winners)
Develop our connection overal.
How much does it cost?
There is a VIP Registration Fee of €100
Subsequently, the subscription is €15/month and can be cancelled without additional charges.
For custom content additional payment may be required.
If you buy me a gift from my Wishlist (or yours and I LOVE it), this price will be deducted from your monthly fee (I do not go below 0, ;) sneaky).
If you win a game against me, of my favourite online video game, you'll get one month free (this voucher can only be used once, I see you Challenger ;)).
Surprise me, please.
Ready to join my VIP club?
Firstly, you follow the general route either through the VIP application form or emailing me your application at vip@inaraella.com
Once your application has been accepted you will be sent the Rules of the Club
If you agree with the rules, you will be able to pay the registration fee.
Welcome! You are now a fine member of Inaraella's VIP Club.
Please note: due to my commitment to develop genuine connections with all my clients, I have placed a limit to the amount of VIP subscriptions. You may be placed on a waiting list, and I kindly ask for your patience.
How do I become a VIP member?
Enjoy the honey, respect the bee.
Let's write a chapter..
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